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  MOVE TOWARDS YOUR ATTRACTION❗ Written By Prisca Dera  Content Writer, Life/Relationship Coach, Accountability Coach I know I'm someone that gets attracted to intelligence. Stupidity is what I hate, like it pushes me away. Imagine just going for anything, it will make me frustrated and i will just leave. This is because I know me, what I can take and what I can't. I remember being a victim of that. I remember someone I met some time ago. Actually, at that time I recovered from a hurt so it now seemed I was free and also i just wanted someone around. That was how I met this guy and we were going. I actually found out we weren't thinking on the same page and asides that, the fact he was slow and his intelligence ratio was low. At some point, I started asking myself what I attracted me and I discovered nothing. I started acting anyhow and that was it. You see attraction, it's really necessary in your relationship/marriage. Not just looks but what attracted you. This is wh...

 THE 411 OF GROWTH   Written By Kaine Chinedu Take a deep breath and think of the good old day's when you were young and in secondary school/university. Now how did you feel when the same class/course mates with whom you receive lectures under the same learning environment  and condition had better grades than  you ? If you're being honest with yourself ,you probably felt jealous ,right?  ... Well I did too. But , do you know that what really matters is how you're able to turn that feeling of jealousy into one of curiosity ,so that you get better grades? See ehn... You see that feeling of jealousy , it's not you actually being jealous oh. Do you know what it is?  It's simply your curious mind wanting to know how your course mates do what they do and how they do it. In essence, you just wanted to know their secrets.  I'm sure you're probably saying to yourself ; " Chinedu where are you heading to with all this?" Just stick with me and you did find o...

HARNESSING YOUR MENTAL ABILITIES! Written By Wisdom Alexander,  Writer/Trainer Your thoughts are like magnet. It has the power to attract the material equivalent that exist all around you. Robert Collier once stated that: ' Every form is presupposed by a directed intelligence' Do you know what that means? Alright,  just stay with me as I explain briefly. If you spend enough time thinking about something of value, gradually that particular thing you're thinking about will start taking form on the outside. For example, if you're thinking about how to start a business  or how to please your spouse more dearly. Everything around you will start responding to that  thought. The material resources you'll need to serve that thought will start gravitating towards you unknowingly. Your thoughts are directed intelligence, if only you will take time to think  intelligently and reflectively! Your thoughts are like laser beam. If you direct it long enough on a particular area...

  THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE OUT KNOWLEDGE Written By Ikedi Jedice  Some posts ago, I mentioned how one should have superior knowledge, but what gain is that knowledge of you don't apply, monetize it or share it to the world. Sometimes I see people hoard knowledge, BUT WHY? My mentor, Sir Heaven Umunna said something and I paraphrase "there are books that your mentors won't give you access to easily but my concern is not about the book but the fact that it was someone who wrote that book" So while you feel like that special book  in your library is for you alone and won't be shared, you must also remind yourself that if the author of that book thought like that, that book won't be in your library. There is a place for not "throwing pearls before swine, lest they trample on it" (I speak in proverbs) But I want us to imagine a scenario. Scripture tells us that one time in Jesus life, He asked questions in the temple. Now imagine if those teachers hoar...

  "ARE YOU REALLY ENTITLED TO THOSE THINGS PEOPLE GIVE TO YOU FOR FREE?" Written By Joseph Adeleke,  Your Personal Development Coach There is this feeling of entitlement we all have. We feel some people in our lives should do this or that for us because it is important for them to do it for us. We feel we deserve better from them and if we don't get those things, we feel so bad about it and feel those people are terrible. I had that feeling of entitlement towards my father for a long time that I felt it was his duty to take care of my every need. I needed him to attend to every need I presented at his table. It was many years later I listened to a message by Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak that changed my thinking. According to Apostle Joshua Selman, if you get things from your parents when you are 18 and above, you are lucky. At that age you should start thinking of what you can do for yourself and reduce the expectations you have from them. So many years ago I was in a rel...

  IDEAS AND CONCEPT! Written By Wisdom Alexander, Writer/Trainer. One thing that sells much faster than anything else in this technology-driven society is ideas and concept! You cannot underestimate the importance of building a concept for that particular business idea you have at the moment. Let me give you a simple biblical illustration to drive home this point: God gave Adam the privilege of naming the various animals that was ever created on the earth. Undoubtedly, the original idea for creating those animals was actually from God.  But God appointed Adam to build a concept for that creative idea by calling those animals by a specific name that everyone can relate with. And whatever Adam calls those animals was what they automatically represented in the eyes of society! Every successful company or individual have a name coined in specific words or languages by which they're called and known for. In otherwords, these companies or individuals have successfully designed a con...

  LEARNING IS VERY IMPORTANT  Written By Mercy Andrew No, it does not as far as what you gain will improve you. When I began my content writing classes, I kept following my coach's updates. They were all excellent, challenging and encouraging. But the one that captured my mind most was, she posted about a 15-year-old boy who has and is still doing well in the writing field. I then wondered why my coach is looking up to this small boy and wanting to get to his position and even more. Is this not surprising? Imagine your teacher/ lecturer wanting to be like a 15-year-old boy in his field or career. Now, it is a clash of your field and age. You are neither gonna drop your age and go after the younger person that has more than you have  Or, you will keep your age glue to pride and ego and remain the way you are. If the 15, 16, 20...year old boy/girl from your field knows and understand it better than you do, it is never a crime to go learn under them. Gone are the days where ...