Dear Bachelor 4 ASPECTS OF A LADY YOU SHOULD NOT TRY TO FORCEFULLY CHANGE. Odogwu_Makanaki 1) HER NATURE There are different type of ladies out there, chatty ones, quiet ones, extroverts, introverts, fashinoistas, etc. Each unique and beautiful in her own way. Your Job isn't to pick any lady and then change her into the type of person you like, your job is to pick a lady that is already the way you like them to be, or even if she isn't, you can accept her that way, that's the first Test of Love and compatibility.. Accepting someone the way they are, not the way they can be. Relationship isn't a Project. 2) HER PASSION Another aspect of a lady you shouldn't temper with in the name of a Relationship is a lady's Passions, Hobbies. The things that give her Satisfaction and Fulfillment. Maybe she loves Art, or Music, or Writing, Outings, you are not to come into her life and shut that aspect of her down. You'll take away things that give her Joy. In fact you a