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 TRUE SECRET ABOUT WOMEN A very prolific  secret about women you may know,  men.  👨‍👨‍👦👨‍👨‍👦‍👦👨‍👨‍👧‍👦👨‍👨‍👧👩‍❤️‍👩👩‍❤️‍👩👨‍👨‍👧 1- When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says... if possible always hug her to calm her down. 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.  3- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 4- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 5- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her. 6- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always. 7- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always. 8- A woman can be highly secretive... Most

  Hi  Friend,   By  – Carthage Buckley here, ⛎♑♏♑♏♑♏♑♒🔱🔱 Steve came to see me because he was feeling lost in his career. He felt that he had outgrown his job and he knew it was time to move on. He even knew what type of job he wanted and had a shortlist of companies he wanted to apply to. However, even though he had the gun loaded and his sights fixed on the right target; he could not get himself to pull the trigger. He simply lacked the confidence to follow through. Like an actor with stage fright, Steve was waiting in the wings watching the show. The problem was that the show he was watching was his life and he was only a spectator. At the back of his mind was the fear that he was making the wrong choice; that he would end up somewhere worse than his current employer. Over the next few weeks, we worked together to help Steve build his self-confidence.  Then, one day, Steve walked in and told me that he had sent an application to each of the companies on his list. He had completed 3

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN ~ MBM, a concerned academic colleague. You finished serving your nation under the NYSC scheme and returned home after the one year mandatory “sacrifice” for your country.  📕📖📰📓📑📒📔📚 You are now at a cross road on what to do next with your life. Although because you made a First-class, you had a bias for the academic sector but was confused on how to start.  Suddenly, a miracle call came through. Your undergraduate University through your Department reminded you of her tradition of retaining her best brains; which implies, the First-class grads.  Excitedly, you jumped at the unique opportunity to kick-start your academic career without stress as the employment was automatic, and without an interview in most cases. This offer was so crucial for you, as not many graduates could boast of a six digit first salary just 2 months after their service year.  “Blessed are you”, everyone kept saying, and you couldn’t but appreciate how fate smiled at you so early, esp

Hi Friend , This is  Carthage Buckley  When I was a young kid, I was desperate for the approval of others. 🐸🐽🐚🐋🍋🍊 I believe it is a behaviour I learned from my father. Sure, it is nice when others approve of you but if you get addicted to that approval, you will end up sacrificing your own life in order to please others.  And the irony is that it will all be in vain. Life is not like the movies – making constant sacrifices and playing the martyr does not make you more popular. People respect those who know who they are, know what they want and live their lives accordingly.  You shouldn’t live your life to get respect, but the reality is that you will get more respect for pursuing your own dreams than you ever will for sacrificing your dreams to help others achieve theirs. We don’t want sacrifice and we don’t want martyrs. We want inspiration and the greatest inspiration you can get is to see others follow their joy and pursue their own goals and dreams. There is nothing wrong wit