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The More We Learn...  Writer By Chinemerem Oyedekaya  The more we learn, the more we realise there is much we don't know. The more we realise that there is much we don't know, the more humble we become. The more humble we become, the more we are ready to learn more by reading, observing and listening without looking down on others.

Who Did This To Me? Writer By Uba Mercy  One of the admin for Phronesis Readers Club  Dancing has never been my thing because while I was growing up they laughed at my dancing steps. So I concluded that I was never going to dance so people won't laugh. I only clap my hand in services while others dance and sweat. Some people started saying I had pride...that I feel too big to dance to dance even for God. But that was not the it. I want to dance...but I feel I can't. Who did this to me? 'Nobody' was the reply I got. You choose to believe what people say so you killed your dancing vibe. When I got that...my mentality changed. I started moving my body gradually while the music play and it's been good. There are something we've concluded we can't do because people said so. The fastest way to kill your vibe and motivation is to believe the negative report of others.  You can do that which you want to do only if you refuse to let people talk you out. You got the a...

 Writer By Janet Abenga WHY PEOPLE USUALLY LOSE FEELING FOR SOMEONE THEY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE WITH Human feelings is uncertain and it can change at any moment, reasons why we shouldn't always allow our feelings determine all our actions and decisions. The feeling of loving someone is so sensitive and should be cherished because it can easily swing or sway. This is the reason why a friend yesterday can be an enemy tomorrow. Lovers can become sworn enemies. Many are times you must have found yourself feeling loved or loving someone, but with time or an event happened and you discover the love is fast fading. REASONS WHY LOVE FADES   INFATUATION Infatuation; which is an intense, but short lived feeling of love is usually one of the reason why people usually lost feeling for the person they once loved.  This type of feeling is common with young and upcoming lovers. It is sometimes sensual and tend to fade away with time. Time is the ultimate distinguishing factor betw...

 You Don't Need To Master Everything  Writer, Leon From Lifehack  Have you ever experienced something like this? You start learning a new skill. At first, you want to learn as much as you can! You are convinced you need to master every area of your skill before taking action. I know because I was like that. When Lifehack became my full-time job, I was determined to make it grow. I wanted it to become the biggest source of motivation on the internet. Back in those days, I didn't have any team to help me. It was just me. For some reason, I believed that the more knowledge I had on a topic, the better my results would be. All of the sudden, I found myself learning about marketing, sales, business development, etc.  To be honest, It was quite overwhelming. Still, I was convinced I had to master all these areas if I wanted to succeed. I was convinced I needed to have deeper knowledge in all these areas if I wanted to succeed. I didn't want to take action until I felt read...

  ROLES ROLE MODEL/MENTOR PLAY.   What Is Mentor? Writer By Olanrewaju Esther    Mentor is an experienced person who advises and helps with less experience over a period of time.    Mentors are the prophecy of the future, they free you from tormentors. A mentor may help with exploring careers, setting goals and developing contact.   A mentor support and encourage their MENTEES by offering suggestions and knowledge both general and specific and they become trusted advisers.   Two things that likely happen when mentoring is REBUKING and LOVING.  Make sure you always submit yourself to your mentor whenever he/she is talking to you and be always willing to learn. By so doing, you will become a better version of yourself.  Olanrewaju Esther

  A LITTLE PUSH IS WHAT YOU NEED. ©Mary Omidiran  I started this year with great motivation. I had my year all planned out. I wrote down all I want to achieve. I wasn't expecting the lockdown. When it happened I didn't know what to do. I felt as though all  my plans have been  shattered For days I didn't do anything. I was confused about what I want. Mr laziness crept in. That was when I realized I had to make good use of the period. I started by deciding to improve myself. This is one of the best decisions I have ever made. I read books. I registered for online classes.  I knew I had to push myself into doing what is right. I had nobody to motivate me so I started motivating myself. I set some triggers, I set an alarm on my phone that would wake me up early enough. I realized that being more active and productive in those early hours. I made good use of them. Sometimes I would doze off while reading or praying. I would continue when I wake up. There were days I...

 A Million Lives Writer By: Tiamiyu E, Babátúndé  _I can boldly say my life has duplicate, because i can resurrect after you knock me down!._  Whenever the gravity or a gust of the wind outweigh the strength of a leaf on the tree, it eventually falls off and consequently cease to grow. On the contrary, rain could be teeming down for days and still got evaporated after some certain periods as proven by the  scientists, these two examples try to illustrate some realities of life if carefully studied microscopically.   It's pathetic and disheartening  that vast number of people fall in the former category, once they are knocked down or life showed them other faces, both their spiritual and self esteem turn upside down with immediate alacrity. They automatically tag themselves as the unfortunate beings without iota of hope just because the situation isn't favourable! Don't forget its possible to raise once again after knockdown or being completely humiliated be...