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  Written By Ocholi Okutepa 1. Relationships And Marriages Were Never Meant To Fail! 2. Love is the only force that won't die with time if the right principles are practiced. 3. The relationship must increasingly become easier to run. The harder a relationship gets, the clearer it is that wisdom is lacking in it. 4. Most people who do badly in marriage are those who feel they know what they actually don't know; so they approach marriage with that kind of arrogance that expels the humility of learning. 5. A foolish man expects his wife to find submission easy when he himself has refused to find it easy to submit to God and when his leadership is poor. 6. A foolish woman sees the God ordained concept of submission as oppression and focuses more on competing with her man than complementing him. 7. You want to compete with your partner? Too bad, you don't even know the spelling of 'union' 8. You should complement and balance each other. 9. None of you has it all and can

 Wrtten By Uwem Benson SAY NO TO EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS! He was having his evening beverage That's when she joined him. "Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down. "I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her. " Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said. "I am a married man" he told her. "Fight all you want, but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him. "You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off. "Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage, then lifting up her skirt, just a bit. "If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a gro

  MARRIAGE COUNSELING FOR MEN:  The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence". (1)So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden. (2)The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear. (3)The third thing God told man was "Cultivate"...... Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job i

  MY LOVE STORY PART 1. Written By Messiah Dauda What am I? Do You  Think I'm A Stone? Tried my best all time to go into a relationship, but I don't just fit in. Maybe GOD created me that way. So many times I think maybe i'm scared , but maybe it's not just my time yet. . . . I visited a long lost friend of mine one day. (A female friend precisely) After greetings we gisted and laughed, We had a lot to discuss because we had a lot of memories to recall. We gisted for approximately an hour, Then I decided to take my leave. She ex courted me to the junction, we exchanged numbers and waved each other good bye. To be sincere I had a crush on her. When I got home, I sent her a friend request and she accepted. Then we started chatting. We discussed about school, how she has been coping with the lock down n so on. Trust me she's cute. I asked her about her relationship life, but she didn't respond instead she asked me about mine. I told her how I gat no feels for girls

  That I Wasn't A Good Writer? Why Done Is Better Than Perfect Written By Leon Ho, Founder And CEO For Lifehack Who doesn't like things to be perfect? That everything goes exactly like we want things to go. That every project in our lives goes exactly the way we want it to. We never turn in work because we believe we just don't deserve it. So, we delay taking action and showing our project to the world. All because we are not sure about every single little detail. I know because it happened to me. It was 2005, and I was about to launch a project I had been thinking about for a while. A blog on time management and motivation called Lifehack. I had been delaying the decision for a while, though. I always found something that I just didn't like enough and needed to be improved. So, I kept delaying the launch until "everything was perfect". Back then, I justified myself by calling myself a perfectionist. And I was proud of it. I didn't think it was a problem u

  HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY (Friendship) In Your Relationship And Marriage. ************************ Marriage only makes someone your lawfully wedded PARTNER, it is Intimacy that makes them your FRIEND. There are married People whose best friend is not their Partner, while for some, their Partner is not even their friend. Such a Marriage is a waste of "I DO" 2 WAYS TO BUILD INTIMACY: 1) COMMUNICATION and 2) COLLABORATION COMMUNICATION =>TALK.. A lot. Create time to call, text, chat, video call, hang out.  Talk about everything and anything. About your love for each other, your day, how it went, what you ate, who you saw, your funny/hurtful experiences and adventures, talk about your fears, your hopes and aspirations, gist, gossip, rant to each other.. Both in the Spiritual and in the Physical, Communication breeds Intimacy. => GIVE. Communication isn't only with words, you also communicate with gifts, acts of service, cash, etc. Learn to spoil each other with the resour

 WOMEN ARE PRICELESS  BY Richard Mofe-Damijo. She wakes up by 4am, gives you sex, You sleep back, she will move straight to the kitchen. She would join morning devotion by 5:3 0am, start preparing kids by 6:00am, serve everybody food by 7am, take the kids to school and move to her office by 7:30am, go for school runs by 2pm. She would come back to the house by 5-6pm, start washing of clothes and cooking dinner by 6pm. Serve dinner by 7:30pm, start home work for kids by 8-9pm, Shower and meet you the husband in the room by 9:30pm, discuss with you and catch fun so that you will be in the mood for sex. And you the husband will sleep like a king, She will get up to check on the children if they are sleeping well, off the light, Start praying for you and the family by 12am -1am.. Sleep a little and wake up again by 4am to start all over again... And yet we don't respect the ladies in our lives.. Oga change your ways. Good women are to be celebrated. Sometimes I feel nature is unfair to