HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY (Friendship) In Your Relationship And Marriage

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HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY (Friendship) In Your Relationship And Marriage.

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Marriage only makes someone your lawfully wedded PARTNER, it is Intimacy that makes them your FRIEND.


There are married People whose best friend is not their Partner, while for some, their Partner is not even their friend. Such a Marriage is a waste of "I DO"


2 WAYS TO BUILD INTIMACY:


1) COMMUNICATION and

2) COLLABORATION


COMMUNICATION


=>TALK.. A lot.

Create time to call, text, chat, video call, hang out. 


Talk about everything and anything.


About your love for each other, your day, how it went, what you ate, who you saw, your funny/hurtful experiences and adventures, talk about your fears, your hopes and aspirations, gist, gossip, rant to each other..


Both in the Spiritual and in the Physical, Communication breeds Intimacy.


=> GIVE.

Communication isn't only with words, you also communicate with gifts, acts of service, cash, etc.


Learn to spoil each other with the resources available to you both. And for the married, Sex is also part of communication.


2) COLLABORATION


Pray together, Plan together, Play together. Bath together (if married), Eat together, 


Visit friends together. 


Go on dates, attend programs, seminars, concerts together. 


Grow Together. Intentionally come up with ideas and plans that will see you and your partner more together than apart. 


It's sad when you see persons who seem to enjoy themselves more when apart from their partner, a married Man who prefers being with the Boys every Friday eating suya and drinking peppersoup than taking his wife out to do same or something else, you are harming your Relationship and Marriage..


Marriage without Intimacy is like Food without Salt.


Intimacy builds Trust, Unity, Love, Happiness and Peace. Go for Intimacy. Go for Gold.


Marry your Friend and Befriend who you Marry 


#MG

#MARRYWELL

#RELATIONSHIPHEARTBITS

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