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 TRUE SECRET ABOUT WOMEN A very prolific  secret about women you may know,  men.  👨‍👨‍👦👨‍👨‍👦‍👦👨‍👨‍👧‍👦👨‍👨‍👧👩‍❤️‍👩👩‍❤️‍👩👨‍👨‍👧 1- When a woman is angry, she doesn't mean over half of what she says... if possible always hug her to calm her down. 2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves. She can get distressed.  3- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change her mind when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it. 4- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from. 5- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit". Continue wooing her. 6- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach. Yes treat her right always. 7- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt. Avoid negative words and affirm her always. 8- A woman can be highly secretive... Most ...

  Hi  Friend,   By  – Carthage Buckley here, ⛎♑♏♑♏♑♏♑♒🔱🔱 Steve came to see me because he was feeling lost in his career. He felt that he had outgrown his job and he knew it was time to move on. He even knew what type of job he wanted and had a shortlist of companies he wanted to apply to. However, even though he had the gun loaded and his sights fixed on the right target; he could not get himself to pull the trigger. He simply lacked the confidence to follow through. Like an actor with stage fright, Steve was waiting in the wings watching the show. The problem was that the show he was watching was his life and he was only a spectator. At the back of his mind was the fear that he was making the wrong choice; that he would end up somewhere worse than his current employer. Over the next few weeks, we worked together to help Steve build his self-confidence.  Then, one day, Steve walked in and told me that he had sent an application to each of the companies on...

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN ~ MBM, a concerned academic colleague. You finished serving your nation under the NYSC scheme and returned home after the one year mandatory “sacrifice” for your country.  📕📖📰📓📑📒📔📚 You are now at a cross road on what to do next with your life. Although because you made a First-class, you had a bias for the academic sector but was confused on how to start.  Suddenly, a miracle call came through. Your undergraduate University through your Department reminded you of her tradition of retaining her best brains; which implies, the First-class grads.  Excitedly, you jumped at the unique opportunity to kick-start your academic career without stress as the employment was automatic, and without an interview in most cases. This offer was so crucial for you, as not many graduates could boast of a six digit first salary just 2 months after their service year.  “Blessed are you”, everyone kept saying, and you couldn’t but appreciate how fate smiled a...

Hi Friend , This is  Carthage Buckley  When I was a young kid, I was desperate for the approval of others. 🐸🐽🐚🐋🍋🍊 I believe it is a behaviour I learned from my father. Sure, it is nice when others approve of you but if you get addicted to that approval, you will end up sacrificing your own life in order to please others.  And the irony is that it will all be in vain. Life is not like the movies – making constant sacrifices and playing the martyr does not make you more popular. People respect those who know who they are, know what they want and live their lives accordingly.  You shouldn’t live your life to get respect, but the reality is that you will get more respect for pursuing your own dreams than you ever will for sacrificing your dreams to help others achieve theirs. We don’t want sacrifice and we don’t want martyrs. We want inspiration and the greatest inspiration you can get is to see others follow their joy and pursue their own goals and dreams. There i...

  *3 POST-COVID FIREWALL OPPORTUNITIES YOU CAN TAP INTO*  Written By ISAAC JOHN-AGBO  Life & Business Coach  Global Investor Digital Networker ⛲🤽🏑🚃🏎 For a while, I have been campaigning on the need to build businesses that are  COVID-19 proof, I'm glad some heeded to my advice whereas some didn't.  I also mentioned the need to own a foreign investment or at least earn in foreign currencies especially in any of these currencies ($, €, £) Recently, the *black market* exchange rate of 1 dollar is about #470 plus 1 Pound is about #600 plus 1 Euro is about #550 plus Even, 1 Yuan is about #70 plus That should tell you something!  It should tell you the current state of our currency against other currencies especially the three pairs mentioned above.  The truth is, this free fall of Naira to Dollar may not slow down anytime soon. What that means is, the situation of Nigeria and most African countries may even get worse in the coming months. Am I ...

  WHAT LEADERSHIP IS NOT AND WHAT IT IS ALL ABOUT: From Victor Orji CP,  🏐🥊💥⛲🤼 - Leadership is not all about position or Post. It's all about Function. You may be functional more than those with positions if you choose to. You may be a great Leader without position or portfolio.  -Leadership is more than an office. Bad mentality make people prefer positions more than functionality, that's why some fight for positions. ,- Leadership is not about superiority. You may be a boss and remain like a status without knowing what is going on. - Leadership is not all about Personality, but about quality. - Leadership is not all about Age, though Age should be respected. There is nothing like "foundamental member", "who came before who," but the best idea. - Leadership is not all about Lordship. You do not Lord it over people. People should not be afraid of you as a Leader. - Leadership is not all about yourself. Try to influence someone. Train someone who can be ab...

  Hi  Friends , This is Leon From Life hack Work 💥💢💥💢🏓🤼 You might have read about successful individuals or celebrities who battle with depression and other forms of mental health issues due to certain pressures that have been placed on them. Expectations, commitment to deliver, or having to act in a certain way have let them to great success, but it comes at a great price too.  What about you?  I'm sure in your own life you'd have felt certain pressures.. you may not even be aware of?  Like wanting to be the best for your partner in a relationship, or wanting to be the best parent to your kid. Or in your job where you have to please your boss and out perform in order to get that promotion.  Between being told we have the same amount of hours in the day as Taylor Swift, and the barrage of memes that claim we should be starting a business, and completing 50-leven projects, there is a pressure to perform at the highest level possible.  Every rapper...