WHY YOU SHOULD ALWAYS FORGIVE
WHY YOU SHOULD ALWAYS FORGIVE
Writer By ...Orji Victor CP
It is in this life, I have come to understand that no matter how good I am, no matter how I try to give, play, be humble, carry everyone along, support others, avoid troubles and pray, there are offences, troubles, problems that must come my way and people that must hate or try to work against me, not because they wanted to be my enemies or work against me but because the Sovereign God or satan have made it that I must meet such people and such event(s) must occur in my life.
They may love me, but once the day that destiny has ordained or appointed them to Misbehave comes, they will do as ordained, because a force (good or bad) bigger than them will compel them to do so.
Judas Iscariot was forced to betray Jesus, not because of hate, but because an evil spirit entered him
Peter denied Our Lord Jesus 3 times not because of hate but because the devil pushed him..
So, my friend, always forgive people whether they apologized or not because it might be that they are forcefully fulfilling destiny assigned by a force higher, bigger and stronger than them.
Some might continue to be part of your life like Peter was to Our Lord Jesus Christ, while some will never come close to you again like Judas Iscariot.
1. God commanded us to forgive.
2. God forgave us all our sins.
3. Unforgiveness hurts and kills the carrier.
4. Unforgiveness hinders joy and causes sickness.
5. Unforgiveness hinders your ability to move on and make your life better.
6. Bittered hearts do not produced bettered life.
7. God's word instructed us to forgive always.
8. Your offender today might be your helper tomorrow.
9. They might be under the influence of a force bigger than them.
10. You do offend people too
SOME HABITS THAT WILL HELP YOU IN FORGIVING OFFENCES AND OFFENDERS AND STAY UNHURT, NOT BITTERED:-
1. Prayerfully ask God for grace to forgive.
2. Always be vigilant and careful.
3. Forgive offences before they even come.
4. Be Spiritually sensitive when it comes to reconciliation.
5. Always be good and kind even to your offenders, learn to speak good of them too.
6. Don't allow the offenders/offences change you into an evil or a hateful person.
7. Always give God who created, called and is with you glory in all things because He knows the best for you.
Our Lord Jesus Christ, when He was physically here never gave Himself to be killed prematurely when they saught to kill Him,rather you disappeared out of their reach, though He forgave them, but He preserved Himself.
Forgiveness is a must.
Reconciliation is a choice.
How do I know I have not forgiven?
> Anytime you get angry on seeing or hearing about the offender.
> Anytime you feel unease whenever you suddenly meet the offender.
> When you work against the name or good of the offender.
> When you refuse to be of a good assistance to the offender
> Whenever you wish that something bad should happen to the offender.
> When you are happy that bad things happened to the offender.
> When you drive joy in speaking against the person.
> When you forget all the good of the offender (Even though you don't move along again, remember the person's good side, except the person na satan 😅)
> When you block something good that wants to come to him or her.
Etc
Forgive, Forgive and continue to Forgive.
Show Love
But be at alert, a snake might never change to a rope oooooo 😅
I LOVE YOU ALL.
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