The 6 language of relationship I’d known before we got married.
Relationship is not by force is by choice
By Michael C.Onah
By Michael C.Onah
While I was
still a novice about relationship I’ll always think something boyfriend or
girlfriend ultimate, my mind will so much anchor on the negative side but when
I started surfing online, reading e-books, asking questions my mentors, step by
step my knowledge began widened dropping the ancient mindset and picking up the
modern type and now it far what I see as a boyfriend or girlfriend issue. We’re
now study deep relationship, here we go…
What adventures I remember that can't go off my y mind?
What adventures I remember that can't go off my y mind?
1 What both
do you do a leaving-
It’s very
necessary for both engage themselves working in a reputable firm to avoid
laziness and insult you both. When you’re on an item with a lady and somehow
she figure out from you you’re a loafer type the interest much then ought to
start diminishing gradually. If you’re the type sitting at home all the day
busy all the time working unnecessary begging, watching TV or playing games I
urge you go out there look for something you will lay your hands on. Why? It
creates room for respect and self-esteem each other you both will be thrill, at
least let it be so often you beg bread from each other. I learned a story about
a fair-young-guy who wants to marry a pretty girl of his choice but
unfortunately he was a loafer stranded and solely relied on the girl’s mother
to cater every ceremonial activity done. The mother said no,
'I love you
son, I love everything about you but go get something tangible
doing, I might cater for the party but what then matter while both into the
family, will I be the same person taking all of the responsibilities at home?
Of course no', she said.Now the marriage is hanging abeyance the
both two involved on the case can’t found their feet.
2-How often
you see each other-
Have you
found yourself in a relationship before? Or are you a novice may be you just
engaged new? I’ll tell you in a week visit each other twice and in a month
visit eight times optimal. What spoiled so early relationship is lack of visit
the guy or the lady. When the baby see you don’t give her time or attention
perhaps your job or something and remember you just started dating new. She can
so easily change her mind to someone else, but when she sees your face often
you remind her of the dream she had about you last night or previously keeping
her company.
Who will I Marry, my girl friend or my girl's friend?
Who will I Marry, my girl friend or my girl's friend?
3-Let go
site seeing-
Outing it a
four wall in the beginning of a cordial fresh relationship it keep it so tight
like a warmer that can easily not get cold. At the period for site seeing both
of you can plan your family for the future on the bridge , how to making your
babies, how many will they be, where and when to go for a vacation and lots
more interesting packages. Hidden things concerning relationship into marriage
all boils down into the site seeing.
4-Love –
love it
power, it can tear all walls mountain down, it can melt the earth like a candle
wax, love it medicine; it heals and it generous, there’s no room for hatred,
love is peace and kind. Ninety percent of old and new broken relationship it
caused by lack of love. A relationship governs with love last long it doesn’t
spoil like a perishable stuff. When relationship soured it as a result of one
caused; lack of love. You see when we say love in marriage or
relationship people termed it this way, when things is moving smoothly is love,
no. I called it eyed service, not really love you meant. Love means when good
or bad he still loved you or she still loved the guy. I’ve seen dozens of
marriages fades away like a mirage but in the beginning it was fantastic but
when the unexpected happened everyone looks for his or her way out safe. In the
darkest night hour love is found in us it called genuine love.
5-Background.—
What’s the
guy’s background? And what’s the lady’s background? That’s should be another
question clamoring on both of you in your minds. We should be able to know
total of our backgrounds in the period of our relationship, knowing a little of
each other’s background is very essential because and why. It gives a clue to
visit one another while in time absence of the guy or the lady. I can walk to
my guy’s family and sit comfortable with his family members and will entertain
me well and same here the guy. I can’t relate with a person who had not shown
me his background so as mine. Knowing each other’s background is like: knowing
the parents, the siblings, the friends and well-wishers.
6-Admit once
fault-
We are bound
to make errors exceptional from none. Don’t feel too big to admit your
mistakes; don’t feel pride to say I’m sorry, don’t feel pompous to lay your
apology on the surface mat. I’m a type guy that easily say am
sorry when I offend any one around me, it won’t cost you anything it won’t off
your cap rather it enhances your dignity or reputation and she will like you
better; same here he will like her the best. But when I am at fault
or she’s no one can admit that…it there means you’re both falling apart. First
get to know each other weaknesses and try manage yourselves from that, it can
help you know when to step on each other’s toe.
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By Michael c. Onah.(author)
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