The 6 language of relationship I’d known before we got married.

Relationship is not by force is by choice

 By Michael C.Onah

While I was still a novice about relationship I’ll always think something boyfriend or girlfriend ultimate, my mind will so much anchor on the negative side but when I started surfing online, reading e-books, asking questions my mentors, step by step my knowledge began widened dropping the ancient mindset and picking up the modern type and now it far what I see as a boyfriend or girlfriend issue. We’re now study deep relationship, here we go…

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1 What both do you do a leaving- 

It’s very necessary for both engage themselves working in a reputable firm to avoid laziness and insult you both. When you’re on an item with a lady and somehow she figure out from you you’re a loafer type the interest much then ought to start diminishing gradually. If you’re the type sitting at home all the day busy all the time working unnecessary begging, watching TV or playing games I urge you go out there look for something you will lay your hands on. Why? It creates room for respect and self-esteem each other you both will be thrill, at least let it be so often you beg bread from each other. I learned a story about a fair-young-guy who wants to marry a pretty girl of his choice but unfortunately he was a loafer stranded and solely relied on the girl’s mother to cater every ceremonial activity done. The mother said no, 

'I love you son, I love everything about you  but go get something tangible doing, I might cater for the party but what then matter while both into the family, will I be the same person taking all of the responsibilities at home? Of course no',  she said.Now the marriage is hanging abeyance the both two involved on the case can’t found their feet.

2-How often you see each other- 

Have you found yourself in a relationship before? Or are you a novice may be you just engaged new? I’ll tell you in a week visit each other twice and in a month visit eight times optimal. What spoiled so early relationship is lack of visit the guy or the lady. When the baby see you don’t give her time or attention perhaps your job or something and remember you just started dating new. She can so easily change her mind to someone else, but when she sees your face often you remind her of the dream she had about you last night or previously keeping her company.
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3-Let go site seeing- 

Outing it a four wall in the beginning of a cordial fresh relationship it keep it so tight like a warmer that can easily not get cold. At the period for site seeing both of you can plan your family for the future on the bridge , how to making  your babies, how many will they be, where and when to go for a vacation and lots more interesting packages. Hidden things concerning relationship into marriage all boils down into  the site seeing.

 4-Love – 

love it power, it can tear all walls mountain down, it can melt the earth like a candle wax, love it medicine; it heals and it generous, there’s no room for hatred, love is peace and kind. Ninety percent of old and new broken relationship it caused by lack of love. A relationship governs with love last long it doesn’t spoil like a perishable stuff. When relationship soured it as a result of one caused; lack of love. You see when we   say love in marriage or relationship people termed it this way, when things is moving smoothly is love, no. I called it eyed service, not really love you meant. Love means when good or bad he still loved you or she still loved the guy. I’ve seen dozens of marriages fades away like a mirage but in the beginning it was fantastic but when the unexpected happened everyone looks for his or her way out safe. In the darkest night hour love is found in us it called genuine love.

5-Background.—

What’s the guy’s background? And what’s the lady’s background? That’s should be another question clamoring on both of you in your minds. We should be able to know total of our backgrounds in the period of our relationship, knowing a little of each other’s background is very essential because and why. It gives a clue to visit one another while in time absence of the guy or the lady. I can walk to my guy’s family and sit comfortable with his family members and will entertain me well and same here the guy. I can’t relate with a person who had not shown me his background so as mine. Knowing each other’s background is like: knowing the parents, the siblings, the friends and well-wishers.

6-Admit once fault- 

We are bound to make errors exceptional from none. Don’t feel too big to admit your mistakes; don’t feel pride to say I’m sorry, don’t feel pompous to lay your apology on the surface mat. I’m a type  guy that easily say  am sorry when I offend any one around me, it won’t cost you anything it won’t off your cap rather it enhances your dignity or reputation and she will like you better; same  here he will like her the best. But when I am at fault or she’s no one can admit that…it there means you’re both falling apart. First get to know each other weaknesses and try manage yourselves from that, it can help you know when to step on each other’s toe.

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