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  THE FEAR OF FEAR.  Writer By  Kristy Omoga. When ever I set out to do new things I become nervous, my hands all shaking often times I end up doing the wrong thing or making a shipwreck of everything. I wanted  to be more bold and confident   "girl you get to be better, you get to do better" But it all get worst. What's wrong??? Well this was the problem. I set out to do the task with the fear that am going to be  scared and nervous again.  And of course the result become the same and even worst. I confronted the task with the fear of fear and fear of being nervous again. HOW IT ALL ENDED. when I realized what the problem was. I chose not to be afraid of failing but to pick it up as a challenge to be better. Another way to overcome the fear of facing a new task or audience is PREPARATION.  You can't deliver more than the level of your preparation. Being prepared gives you some level of confidence and boldness.  Learn more about the task, be ...

 How Can We Overcome The Fear Of Failure? Writer By Leon From Lifehack  Have you ever felt that? That awkward feeling that stops you in your tracks. You know it's time to take action and do something with your life. Maybe you've known for some time now. Then, that question pops into your head. What if everything goes wrong? What if I fail? So you decide to stay where you are and do nothing. Problem is that if you don't make mistakes, you will never achieve your goals. You won't get the skills you need to get to the next level. If you don't fail, you don't succeed. That's the way life works. But, how? How Can We Overcome The Fear Of Failure? In fact, how can we accept it as a part of the process of reaching our goals? The answer is quite simple, actually. Use your imagination. You might be wondering... what? Let me explain. See, if you want to overcome the fear to fail, you have to set your eyes on the positive outcome you want to achieve. It needs to be so r...

The More We Learn...  Writer By Chinemerem Oyedekaya  The more we learn, the more we realise there is much we don't know. The more we realise that there is much we don't know, the more humble we become. The more humble we become, the more we are ready to learn more by reading, observing and listening without looking down on others.

Who Did This To Me? Writer By Uba Mercy  One of the admin for Phronesis Readers Club  Dancing has never been my thing because while I was growing up they laughed at my dancing steps. So I concluded that I was never going to dance so people won't laugh. I only clap my hand in services while others dance and sweat. Some people started saying I had pride...that I feel too big to dance to dance even for God. But that was not the it. I want to dance...but I feel I can't. Who did this to me? 'Nobody' was the reply I got. You choose to believe what people say so you killed your dancing vibe. When I got that...my mentality changed. I started moving my body gradually while the music play and it's been good. There are something we've concluded we can't do because people said so. The fastest way to kill your vibe and motivation is to believe the negative report of others.  You can do that which you want to do only if you refuse to let people talk you out. You got the a...

 Writer By Janet Abenga WHY PEOPLE USUALLY LOSE FEELING FOR SOMEONE THEY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE WITH Human feelings is uncertain and it can change at any moment, reasons why we shouldn't always allow our feelings determine all our actions and decisions. The feeling of loving someone is so sensitive and should be cherished because it can easily swing or sway. This is the reason why a friend yesterday can be an enemy tomorrow. Lovers can become sworn enemies. Many are times you must have found yourself feeling loved or loving someone, but with time or an event happened and you discover the love is fast fading. REASONS WHY LOVE FADES   INFATUATION Infatuation; which is an intense, but short lived feeling of love is usually one of the reason why people usually lost feeling for the person they once loved.  This type of feeling is common with young and upcoming lovers. It is sometimes sensual and tend to fade away with time. Time is the ultimate distinguishing factor betw...

 You Don't Need To Master Everything  Writer, Leon From Lifehack  Have you ever experienced something like this? You start learning a new skill. At first, you want to learn as much as you can! You are convinced you need to master every area of your skill before taking action. I know because I was like that. When Lifehack became my full-time job, I was determined to make it grow. I wanted it to become the biggest source of motivation on the internet. Back in those days, I didn't have any team to help me. It was just me. For some reason, I believed that the more knowledge I had on a topic, the better my results would be. All of the sudden, I found myself learning about marketing, sales, business development, etc.  To be honest, It was quite overwhelming. Still, I was convinced I had to master all these areas if I wanted to succeed. I was convinced I needed to have deeper knowledge in all these areas if I wanted to succeed. I didn't want to take action until I felt read...

  ROLES ROLE MODEL/MENTOR PLAY.   What Is Mentor? Writer By Olanrewaju Esther    Mentor is an experienced person who advises and helps with less experience over a period of time.    Mentors are the prophecy of the future, they free you from tormentors. A mentor may help with exploring careers, setting goals and developing contact.   A mentor support and encourage their MENTEES by offering suggestions and knowledge both general and specific and they become trusted advisers.   Two things that likely happen when mentoring is REBUKING and LOVING.  Make sure you always submit yourself to your mentor whenever he/she is talking to you and be always willing to learn. By so doing, you will become a better version of yourself.  Olanrewaju Esther