YOU'VE HEARD IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN, MARRY YOUR FRIEND.

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 YOU'VE HEARD IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN, MARRY YOUR FRIEND. 

Written By Merry Paul

Getting married to your friend is a factor that can never be undermined, If it's a successful and fulfilling marriage you desire. 


It is important that you marry your trusted friend: one whom you feel very safe with at your vulnerable and weak moments; one who's also there at your power and peak moments, it will be a great wisdom to consider such a one. You want to marry someone you know, not someone you're still trying to figure out. 


Although it works for some, I don't believe in marriage by faith. By this I mean getting married to someone you just met. You haven't taken your time to confirm and check significant things and details concerning their lives, you just give in, hoping that things will be okay. Like I said it works for some, but I'll rather confirm all I need to confirm than to be unbelievably shocked by something I'm not aware of in marriage.


I emphasize this friendship because those I know who are succeeding in relationships and marriage,  blessing God in it are those who build it upon solid  friendship. They plan together, make major decisions together, they incorporate an effective division of labor, they joyfully ease each other's burden. However, I am not in any way suggesting that they'll never have misunderstandings, there might be some. It is also important to note that not all misunderstandings are bad; they help meek couples who place premium friendship to understand each other and even bond more. It only becomes bad when it's not correctly addressed or handled. 


Marriage I believe is sweeter when the parties involved are great friends.


©Merry Paul

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