CHECK YOURSELF

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 CHECK YOURSELF. 


Some of you that make statements like all girls or guys of nowadays are scum etc. They just want to scam you.


The truth is that you are one of the scum and scammer but you probably do not know. 


If you keep falling victim to dating bad people you need to check yourself. 


When you keep having something happening to you repeatedly with different people then the problem is from you. You can't tell me you have been with 3 persons and the same thing happens and it's all their fault. No. 


There is definitely something you are not doing right that is constantly make you attract this set of persons. 


There are patterns you are repeating. There are mistakes you are making and signs you are ignoring or even things you are overdoing. 


The truth is that most times people don't see or know this, that is why they will always blame the external person for their internal problem. 


Am I saying that there are no bad people out there? Definitely No. There are crazy people out there. People that are not normal. People looking for who to suck dry. 


They are looking for just a sex partner. They are looking for a guy to spend his money, evil ones are looking for a home to break. So if it's for bad people they are out there. 


They carry a lot of problems with them because they are on a mission this is why everything they touch they leave broken. 


So yes they exist. 


Now you know they exist and your point about them is now validated. Let me ask you. Why do you always attract this kind of person? Why? 


Check yourself because I know and have seen and have been with great people. Great minds, people that desire God and desire a happy home. People that will do everything to put join on the face of the one they love. 


I have seen people who will sacrifice their last to see their partner happy. These people also exist and they are many. 


So please if you still believe men or women are scum, first add yourself to that list them check yourself because 80% of the time you will attract exactly what you carry, you will attract people like you. 


Now is the time to take counseling or coaching seriously to help you figure out what you are doing wrong. You will only harvest from where you sow. 


If you are still doing trial and error you will soon discover that you have been deceiving yourself for years. 


So check yourself, see a counselor before you go out there to point fingers. 


Cheers. 


Personal development and Relationship Coach 

Profit Eneh

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