CONCERNING WHO'S PROPOSAL TO ACCEPT OR NOT

 

CONCERNING WHO'S PROPOSAL TO ACCEPT OR NOT.

Written By Merry Paul

The Bible encouraged us to watch and Pray, though in context it wasn't talking about relationships and proposals, I however affirmatively state that  "if we watch well, we might not need to pray again"

What you see well, determines what you'll pray about. Watch first, if he has a clean slate then you begin to pray. 

For instance, praying about someone who after you've carefully watched, you discovered that he is practically a fraudulent, lying cheat is a waste of prayer........my sisters, shine your eyes.

When you've watched and realised that they are wrong for you, do not fall for their smooth talks, don't allow them sit you on the fence.

 And if you're still watching, ask them questions tire, make sure you confirmed every of their claim back to back, make sure you confirm the veracity of anything you're not cool or certain about.

Do not fall for their flashy and exotic gifts, be very discerning.

I'm surprised that there are a lot of young men who still cheat comfortably under the guise that they are not married to the lady yet.

Some will say that they can only be young once, so  they have to enjoy their life. while some add a question "what is the guarantee that she's also not cheating?" Can you see the height of irresponsibility among young people? So called leaders of tomorrow.

I wonder why and how people are so comfortable, wasting each others time.

I'll still resound it today again, If you're Above 18 years of age and you're still playing boyfriend and girlfriend: in an uncertain relationship, one that won't lead to marriage, I can't describe the magnitude of your foolishness, you're obviously in a deep sleep, wake up fast before you die it: before it's too late.

Today I charge every young person in such relationship to have a rethink; particularly the  ladies. Don't allow your grace period pass turning husbands into becoming a prayer point. It doesn't have to be so.

Prayerfully catch one now and grow together, that's how our parents won and they are still together today.

But in all, take you time to watch well, before you begin to pray concerning a prospect.

Some watching can be so great that prayer might not be necessary to confirm that the person is right for you.

Dear young people, I care about you and your marital future that's why I'm writing you. Don't waste your youth, highly invest in it, for surely the night will come, and won't have the energy to make hay again. I come in peace.

©Merry Paul.