7 IMPORTANT TEST OF TRUE LOVE FOR SINGLES

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 7 IMPORTANT TEST OF TRUE LOVE FOR SINGLES.

Written By Chuks Onyekaba.

So many Christian Singles are faced with this very Important Question; "How do I know that Someone truly loves Me?"

My Answer is PUT IT TO TEST!

Here are 7 Powerful ways to Test if it is TRUE LOVE.


1. ATTRACTION TEST:

What attracts you to that person? If it is all about his/her outward appearance like hair style, shape, height, breast, buttocks, UKWU, complexion, position, wealth, beauty, voice, car, money, etc; IT IS NOT TRUE LOVE! It is mere infatuation. True Love depends on godly qualities, integrity, fear of God, intelligence, character, submissive Spirit, etc.

Infatuation does NOT last! When what attracts you fades away, you love for that person will also fade away!


2. ACTIVITY TEST:

What do both of you normally do when you are alone together? If you Pray together, plan together for your future, Study God's Word, attend Seminars, discuss about God, His Service & your purposes, then IT IS TRUE LOVE!

But if all these are not what you do, rather what you indulge in is to kiss, hug, cuddle, fondle, have sex, exchange nude pictures, then SORRY; its NOT TRUE LOVE! Thats the Spirit of LUST taking you far away from the Presence of God.


3. PURPOSE TEST:

What's the purpose of your relationship with that person? Is it to Marry him/her or to kiss, touch her breast, get his money and later dump him/her?

If your purpose is not based on a life-long commitment, then forget it. IT'S NOT TRUE LOVE!

Ladies Beware! Some guys only see you as a BEDMATE not a SOULMATE! Run for your life! He does not deserve you!


4. STARTING TEST:

How did the Relationship begin? True Love evolves from FRIENDSHIP and matures in Marriage! Infatuation starts very Fast, especially at FIRST SIGHT and is always in a haste to land on the bed of immorality!

Lust lacks patience but Love is Patience, Kind and does not rejoice in iniquity!


5. CARING TEST:

Does that person truly cares for Your life, Spirituality, Academics, Career, Feelings, Emotions, Family; or does all he/she wants is to always have their way? He/she does NOT RESPECT You! 

You say NO to Sex, he forces You!

She wants Money by all means even when you don't have and she demands you must borrow or steal to please her;

Its a sign that such a person does not truly care for you, rather he/she is USING you to satisfy him/her self. TRUE LOVE IS NOT SELFISH.


6. PURITY TEST:

Does your relationship glorify God? Ever since you began that relationship, has it separated you from God through Sins and immorality or has it drawn you closer to God?

Is God in support of that Relationship?


7. MARRIAGE TEST:

Finally, can YOU marry that person you said you love? Or you just seee him/her as a part time bedmate or ATM machine who you can dump anytime the REAL PERSON comes along?


As You answer these Questions sincerely, May God grant you Grace & Courage to END every Wrong Relationships this Year in Jesus name.


God bless you as you share.


Pst. Chuks Onyekaba.

President, Believers Singles Network Int'l.

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