BOUNDARIES IN COURTSHIP

 BOUNDARIES IN COURTSHIP

Alexandra Grace Oluwapelumi

there's no amount of boundaries you will set in your courtship that if you are not strictly trained and fortified by the word of God you will end up breaking the boundaries yourselves.

The power of sin needs to be condemned in you already for you to be able to overcome temptations in your courtship.

Sin has to be irritated to you firstly.

You need to be reading the word of God consistently to  refresh your soul from those things you have heard ,seen and said in your courttship that can prompt you in developing the serious urge for sex.

If the power of sin is not condemned in you yet, you will still end up breaking boundaries yourselves.....

Because there is no way, your fiance will look very sexy at times.

That he or she will just look at you like this.

You will just behold the beauty in him or her.

You will just feel like Kissing him/her.

You will be like, this guy is fine today o....see his lips...see his physique ,see his complexion, see his voice  see his beareds....ah omo!! He only touched me I felt like aarrrgggghhh  omo! 

 I hugged him I felt on top of the moon 

He is too romantic 

This girl is beautiful today ooo....her lips is tempting, her body is tempting...like I should just grab her omo!

She is  killing me.

She only touched me, like I should just hold her.

 I hugged her, like I should just be magneted to her.

From there, these kinds of things will be creating some sexual imaginations in you.... You will want to give it a try....

 

You will be thinking about her

You will be thinking about him

You know, it's somebody you love now, you will definitely feel like touching him or her.... except you don't have anything for the person...that is only when you WUNT think of kissing him or touching her....at least you Sha be thinking of tapping current.

From there, these kinds of things will be creating some sexual imaginations in you,

You will try and kiss Each Other mistakenly as you would say, she will be like NO, NO NO, stop it let's not do it. we have said no kissing..... You are already feeling the current from each other.

Because You love Each Other, it's something that you don't do frequently or at all....you will just end up complying with each other to commit sexual immorality.

... Because there is this power of sin in you.....you WUNT be able to hold yourselves, you will just end up breaking the boundaries you set....

 

The NO  seeing each other in dark places  empty places, staying together in a room alone,  and all.... 

Because of the taughts you have created already in you.... You can't just get over with his or  her taughts from your head....You Will End  Up Romancing Each Other In Every Slight Opportunity You Have Both Seen.

 And it can lead to sex.

BUT WHEN YOU ARE  BOTH DEAD TO SIN, 

Those taughts will be erased immediately its coming, you can't even imagine sex. Because you will see it as an irritative thing.

Sin has to be irritated to you for you to overcome temptations and adhere strictly to the rules you have both set in courtship.

You have to receive the power to live above sin through the word of God Before you can have a pure courtship or else you will deceive yourselves.

The flesh has to be crucified, you have to be set free from sin and be slave to righteousness leading to Holiness. Fixing your eyes on the eternal things.

You have to die, and hid your life with Christ in God.

When you see Those pink lips, body curves, hugings and all, you will see it as NORMS! 

you will not be affected by it because you are  no more under the control of flesh, you are  being controlled by the spirit....

so the spirit doesn't move by those things..... spirit does not  feel anything, the spirit cannot react to all those things...spirit is spirit...it's not receptive or responsive to those things.....it is the flesh that is responsive to the things of the flesh, flesh gives birth to flesh. And the spirit gives birth to spirit.

 ROM 8:8 says the mind govern by the flesh is death. But the mind govern by the spirit is life and peace.

Sis darasimi Mike gbamiloye and lawrence oyor was washed by the word of God, they were dead to sin. they fix their eyes on the things that is above . that was how they were able to keep a holy courtship.... They both have pink lips and they are both adorable, but they were not moved by it. They fix there eyes on the permanent things.

If the word of God is not in you....you can't control yourself o, you will only deceive yourselves....

Now to courtships that are not pure, you believe in Jesus Christ, you have him as your lord and personal saviour but you are still being controlled by the flesh.  I hereby Recommend the word of God for you.

1TIMOTHY 3:15b-17.

All scriptures which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

All scripture is God breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

 

Rededicate your life to Jesus Christ. Reason in your heart that God can raised the dead. And you will receive back your life from the dead.

Praise God

Inspired by the holy Spirit.

Alexandra Grace Oluwapelumi.