10 dream killers in life.
By Michael C. Onah
Do you have a dream? Fine if you do, can you
state it in five sentences? But if you don’t have, I’ll loved you to go get one
for yourself because it’s very essential in your life. A man without a dream is
like soon gone plants without nurturing like, applying fertilizer and water to
make it grow well. During a few months stayed in a company I’ve
worked before to be precise TASLY, it a network business. I’ve
one day sit closed my up line while he was busy prospecting a fair lady about
the business just a while I go in to pick a product in the store when I
overheard him asking the lady,
‘what’s your dream in life?’
Believe me in the first place she felt
so awkward like:
‘what’s really this guy is talking about
dream?’
Up-line stared on her
face steady but she couldn’t just look on his face well and not
until she fixed her face on the ground watching the ants
carrying the little crumb to their destination , and notwithstanding shortly
she had to summon courage to speak out; it really funny what she said:
How this 26 year old trader went bankrupt
How this 26 year old trader went bankrupt
‘ I didn’t have any dream last
night in fact I slept well on my bed’, she responded on him. He could just
control his laughter but he had guffawed on the way catching
people’s attention on him. Think like a billionaire.
She didn’t even get what the guy meant by
dream.
DREAM; it a future like just tomorrow
believe it, you need to have a constructive dream unlike that lady had.
1 Too much trust on
people-
It’s too early to start this glorious morning
to solely depends on folk who promised you for something or
desperately you’re desiring have it all means. How I’d wished you’ve
experienced such…. I’ve done just that my previous post my article on my blog 'Champion league game in life (you’re a failure not a winner.)' You can go
check something touchy and come back continue where you’ve stopped. When you’ve
done or experienced that you ought to have keep your little ass very safe or
better still go back to your bed and sleep so tight with your pillow and rise
with a better thought of yours. Could you believe not an outsider or
a peer of mine would’ve done that to me but my uncles and my aunts after my
father’s death on September- 30th- 2006, while I myself
clocked twelve -year –old. I and my family were brutalized and
pessimistic of life because everything my dad worth for after his death was
snatched out from our hands by relatives and say some else’s . In a nut shell
I’ve always learned to put my whole trust in God and trust myself as well not
men anymore. There are the worst dream killers ever.
2 Lazy minded set of
folk-
A lazy person is a theft type; it obvious
that my good mum used to ring this quote on us, her children.
’if you fell to work very hard in life it
there means you’ll go steal people’s stuff’.
And if eventually the news get into her ears
she’ll say shut him to death I don’t know him and he doesn’t know me either,
she had denied. Do you know time passes as a guy or a lady?
‘A man that can’t value an hour of his time
has wasted his life’, said Charles Darwin. In my life I ‘ll always regret
wasting one minute of my time if I didn’t used it for any profitable venture in
my life.
‘A man who views the world the same at 50 as
he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life.’ Muhammed Ali said. Time wait for
no one in life but you can still worth something in your society if you can
only be hard working and stop lazing around the society.
3 Your big mouth-
You ought to talk decently or words of life
that can revive the bones inside the system body, and shut back
where not. Some people are too chatty in life like parrots does, they
say beyond limit what they are not expected to say. A business personal can
block the facial look of his clients with too much choruses of his may be at
the end of the day you end up losing one of them, it a something you know? The
firm have start developed hole if you don’t do something urgently it start
widening up. Great Men don’t talk too much they talk little and just act so big
you can imagine like wonders. Let every drop of your words always be seasoned
with salt so that men ought to give glory to God Almighty.
4 Your thought-
Your instinct is the first page that direct
and control your life, awfully not working the way it supposed to first
of all the holy bible clearly stated;
‘As a man thinks in his heart so is
he’. You look like what you think and you think like what you see. Problems and
discomforts should not put you down at all, every man
born of woman is full of problem , all heads are sick; everyone its
covering his or her own to the world, don’t make problems very obvious in your
facial look so be strong and remain tough because there are other Goliath to
fight for in life. Problems it part of life; never say no I’m tired
or I go rest my bones tomorrow I face it; no, no face it the same day and win
it or you fight two tomorrow or more perhaps they may end up overwhelming and
you fall like an might iroko tree. fight with justice
without fair or compromise; a thought that can tear all down
mountain.
Feelings- you have done wrong to yourself or
someone else’s where as you’re very much innocent of yourself standing and
viewing yourself at the mirror in your rest room felt so sorry about
it. Don’t feel so sorry about yourself because if you do some folk
will take advantage of you and help you down the more humiliation.
Cheer up at all times, guilty conscience it like a termite that gradual
consuming logs of wood until it tired
then it goes elsewhere . Some people pay innocently what they did not bargain
for or other people’s wrongs. Just be who you’re don’t shift a
little stay tight.
6 Arrogant-
Why do you feel too pompous of
yourself? What do you have on ground that makes your head too big given people
sleepless nights? Are you aware that whatever you have today or
boost for someone have had same thing and turned to be old stock long-term?
So why the noise?
I share with you just a brief story my pastor
told us one day in church precisely on Sunday.
‘My native regalia I and my wife wore during
our traditional marriage, I so much cherish this clothe like forever I like it
and I put it on mostly a special occasion I go out. One surprised day; I drove
on to my mechanic I had an engine slit problem; when I got there I say this
aged man on same regalia his body working with it at his workshop so
greased and dirt’s this time around, I was so shocked I just didn’t say
anything I remained calm until he attend to me and I left disturbed’. I've
learn in life to remain longing for more and never rely on the little I have I
thought before it a mason. I’ve always learn to be like Mark Zuckerberg and
Bill Gates these are set of people that controls the world in
billions and still yet they remain like ice like they don’t have an inch. Be
humble and God will uphold you like Daddy Enoch Adejare Adeboye of
general overseer RCCG he’s.
7 Procrastination-
It a monster. Great men do today what others
are thinking of doing tomorrow, look the future is tomorrow and for you to
shift today obligate till tomorrow you have shifted the next- tomorrow ahead
and it might not be nice to you.
What all about procrastination?
For instance; I have a task to do like to wash a ford car and I lazed around I
shift the task tomorrow and I still have another chores in the morning
same day this time two Camry jeep what then happen? I’ll be bored
and frustrated same time because it going to be very hectic on me I might not
even finish same day it accumulates. What do I portrait here? Simple; shifting
today’s work tomorrow and tomorrow to next one. And that’s why some people
passed by opportunity and they don’t get bless.
Deal
with procrastination by making a concrete decision in your life never to shift
day or days for work.
8 Bad company-
There’s a saying
'Show me your friend I’ll tell you who his he
or she'. What company you tend establishing as a person? Or who
do you work with in the morning in noon time or night? You walking with a
humanizer, a drunkard a theft type or a prostitute and lot more nonsense act.
Believe me you’re like the person you partner with if you’re not careful enough
you may fall into the wide river and most funny stuff here some
will leave you and go there ways, so be careful and be selective a
person you keep as a friend.
9 Unnecessary excuses-
Too much complain leads in the bed
roses of fools. The worst person you can keep as a friend
is one who always reels flimsy excuses all the time and because they never
worth anything in life and you too if you dare join you become a victim. See; tell
them to go to work or do something tangible that can put
money in their pockets hmm no way, they will stock you with excuses
that sometimes you imagine what there are saying is true but it all lies
from the pit of hell. Run away from them miles because negativity is contagious; I’ll
better say go to work…
10 Dreamless person-
When you don’t have a dream you’re like a
dust that fetches sand into a pot that can cause a break in some
once teeth. Someone without a dream don’t stay to see the
expectations for those that have a dream, you can only see but you can’t feel
the warmth the embrace the person’s dream. Great dreamers are
warriors to their lives they don’t just stop dreaming. They can fight to an end
to make sure that it comes to pass in reality. I’ve always worked with
people of certain kind of good dreams and am very
imperative about it because they’ve impressed me enough, and also I’ve worked
with people that have no dream at all and achieve nothing from them
I quit the relationship with immediate alacrity. Life only responds
to people with dream.
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