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HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY (Friendship) In Your Relationship And Marriage

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  HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY (Friendship) In Your Relationship And Marriage. ************************ Marriage only makes someone your lawfully wedded PARTNER, it is Intimacy that makes them your FRIEND. There are married People whose best friend is not their Partner, while for some, their Partner is not even their friend. Such a Marriage is a waste of "I DO" 2 WAYS TO BUILD INTIMACY: 1) COMMUNICATION and 2) COLLABORATION COMMUNICATION =>TALK.. A lot. Create time to call, text, chat, video call, hang out.  Talk about everything and anything. About your love for each other, your day, how it went, what you ate, who you saw, your funny/hurtful experiences and adventures, talk about your fears, your hopes and aspirations, gist, gossip, rant to each other.. Both in the Spiritual and in the Physical, Communication breeds Intimacy. => GIVE. Communication isn't only with words, you also communicate with gifts, acts of service, cash, etc. Learn to spoil each other with the resour...

WOMEN ARE PRICELESS

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 WOMEN ARE PRICELESS  BY Richard Mofe-Damijo. She wakes up by 4am, gives you sex, You sleep back, she will move straight to the kitchen. She would join morning devotion by 5:3 0am, start preparing kids by 6:00am, serve everybody food by 7am, take the kids to school and move to her office by 7:30am, go for school runs by 2pm. She would come back to the house by 5-6pm, start washing of clothes and cooking dinner by 6pm. Serve dinner by 7:30pm, start home work for kids by 8-9pm, Shower and meet you the husband in the room by 9:30pm, discuss with you and catch fun so that you will be in the mood for sex. And you the husband will sleep like a king, She will get up to check on the children if they are sleeping well, off the light, Start praying for you and the family by 12am -1am.. Sleep a little and wake up again by 4am to start all over again... And yet we don't respect the ladies in our lives.. Oga change your ways. Good women are to be celebrated. Sometimes I feel nature is unfa...

So, If The Deer Runs Faster Than The Tiger, Why Does The Deer Become A Victim Of The Tiger?

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  Written By Chimzaram Nwadike The deer can run at speed up to 80 kilometres per hour, while the tiger can run at a maximum speed of 65 kilometres per hour. So, If The Deer Runs Faster Than The Tiger, Why Does The Deer Become A Victim Of The Tiger? The reason is that the deer believes it is weaker than the tiger, this fear makes the deer looks back again and again during a chase. By so doing, the deer loses its speed as well as courage and becomes a victim of the tiger while the tiger only focuses on the deer. This is similar to what happens in life too, those who focus and pursue their goal with courage are the people who win in life’s pursuits. Don’t be like the deer. Instead, be strong and courageous like the lion, because strength and courage are two essential habits of success, that will help you succeed at just about anything you do in your life. Courage and strength go hand-in-hand. It takes courage to start again after you have failed.  It takes courage to face the wor...

THERE ARE BOOKS IN HEAVEN

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  Written By Efut Joseph THERE ARE BOOKS IN HEAVEN Books are portals where deep mysteries are hidden from the ignorant and simple. They are tools for understanding and deciphering of deep wisdom. Books are also the modus operandi where generational legacies and patterns are transferred. They are preservers of kingdom heritages, cultures,teachers of discipline and the pathways to access forgotten ancient histories - for we come to understand more about the ancient system by delving into the written documents. Even the greatest of exploits wroth by men will forever be forgotten unless it is found stuck in a scroll, for even the greatest of men discerned their purpose by books.(Heb 10:7,Psalms 139:15-16) There are books in HEAVEN! In Revelation 21:27,the Bible mentions the Lamb's book of life,and there are others, too. There are books of songs and impact in Heaven that are intended for our knowledge and enjoyment in praising God on earth, while others are designed to give not just aca...

WHAT SHOULD A MAN DO WHEN HIS WIFE DENIES HIM SEX?

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  WHAT SHOULD A MAN DO WHEN HIS WIFE DENIES HIM SEX? From The Unknown Writer I have seen and heard many guys say that if their wives refuse them sex, that they will go outside. This is a sign of immaturity and ignorance. Don't marry a man who thinks that sex is all about him. Women have mood swings and no woman on earth will be readily available for sex anytime you ask for it. If she says no, it's possible she's not emotionally or physically ready. Sex with a woman when not emotionally ready is like rape. A woman's way of sex is not actually through the vagina, a woman enjoys sex first through her feelings. Get into her heart first, before getting into her legs. Take your time, try to touch and play with her, romance and caress her, if she still says no after that gentle approach, just let her be for that moment. Our women do so much work at home, they try to fix so many things. It's either they are in the kitchen, or in the bathroom or with the kids. Sometimes, the...

Procrastination And Low Self Esteem Can Rob You Off A Brighter Future

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Written By Happy Innocent Ezem  Procrastination And Low Self Esteem Can Rob You Off A Brighter Future.  Do what you have to do, and do it now, procrastination na bastard.  Also brush your teeth and bath well, iron your cloths, smell nice, have something basic atleast upstairs, don't eat like a glutton in public abeg, talk to people politely.  When you do this right, then carry yourself with pride, and read plus travel wide.  It will help you heal from low self esteem. Don't forget to make friends with Intelligent and Rich people. Daddy G.O of Entrepreneurs Happy Innocent Ezem  #Happyspeaks #Under30BlackCeo

Ways Of Breaking Up With Your Lover Before Valentine, Excluding Married Couples

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Written  Edit Emmanuel Ways Of Breaking Up With Your Lover Before Valentine, Excluding Married Couples. ______________________________ 1. 16 missed calls? You killed my battery, so you are capable of killing me.... It's Over!!! _ 2. You don't even respect me. I'm talking and you are busy breathing? It's over! _ 3. I called you and you picked up immediately. You lack patience. It’s over!! _ 4. I told u I love my food hot but you refused to warm the ice cream. You don't care about me. It's over! _ 5. I gave u two eggs to boil one and fry the other. You fried the one you were supposed to boil and boiled the one you were supposed to fry. You are not obedient, It’s over! _ 6. I call you DARLING and you called me HONEY. Indirectly, you are calling my mother a BEE. No respect for in-laws, pack your bags. Its over.